I find it funny that my very favourite month of the year in Ontario (September) has become my month away from home. For the last three years my September’s have been filled with life changing adventures, loaded with new ideas, given me new friends and sent me home to Ontario with fresh perspectives on life, work, and who I am.
It all began in 2010 when I decided to ride my bike across Canada as a member of the Sears National Kids Cancer Ride (SNKCR). I joined a group of strangers in Vancouver for a bike ride to raise funds for paediatric cancer causes and to drive awareness. I had no idea that I would get so much back for my effort. The group of volunteers and riders (approximately 100 people) come together for an amazing cause and became my family.
In my quest to pay forward all that I experienced from the 2010 ride, I hopped on the bandwagon as a member of the support crew for SNKCR 2011. Armed with the knowledge of what the riders were going through and the feeling of how much my volunteers gave to me, I headed across Canada again. This time it was a different experience. Many of the people there started as my family and each of the new riders and crew were a welcome addition to our world.
Motivated by the last two years of giving back to my community I made the choice to give back to myself. Enrolling in the Royal Roads MBA program was a big step for me in helping to move forward as a professional and as a person. What I was not expecting was that this was another huge adventure. School has been something I have thought about for quite some time, but not something that I was prepared to commit to. I was sure that I would learn a lot, but I had no idea I would change as a person. The program includes two residencies and a bunch of online learning and programs along the way.
I spent the last three weeks in Victoria BC on my first residency engaged in team projects, outstanding classes and absorbing as much content as I possibly could. During all of this academic learning came a great deal of personal growth. Being in a safe place to ask the question “how does my action effect another person?” was incredibly empowering. It helped me to better understand my own choices and to listen before making a judgement about another person.
Each year I have taken a number of personal lessons away from my experiences. These lessons were not easily earned and in many cases came with many obstacles that I had to overcome before I could get to the lesson at all.
In 2010 I learned how to feel genuine emotion again by learning how to cry after years of thinking that tears were a sign of weakness. I became liberated by understanding that emotion is what makes us whole. In 2011 I learned that the little things you do for another person can make their lives better in big ways.
This year was the biggest personal lesson so far. I learned that asking others to help you is sometimes more of a gift to them than to you. Navigating the campus on crutches was hard, but learning that I can ask for help will last a lot longer than a broken leg.
Now I find myself wondering what life changing adventures are ahead of me next September…..The world is full of lessons if you are willing to show up on time for class.